I look around me

And realize how much people believe and make sure what they hear happens. It is so much easier to get people to believe and do what you say. Yet you and I can be the same way without the realization of it. I mean this in the context of Real Estate and let it grow from there. I have so many transactions going right now, but other agents do so much self destructive behavior to make sure a deal does not occur, because they hear and believe the market is terrible, and feel they cannot get a deal together or to close. They do nto realize they are doing their part to make sure that the belief comes true.

It has been very difficult for me at times because of the difficulty to get through to the agent and try to get them to work toward a warm fuzzy ending, instead of what they have predetermined in their mind.

So important to keep strong each day in so many areas. The gratitude's does a great job at setting the proper mind set first thing, the affirmations is great for the focus on what it is that is truly important to you, and the self talk is a great way to make sure you are going in the direction that you want to. We are our own self guiding system that does not want to take credit or responsibility for ourselves. And the ones that step forward and take responsibility be mock... we are a silly race, use that energy to simply create your own life the way you really want it. Get rid of the excuses, focus hard and allow yourself a life people dream of.....

Jim

Stay Focused

The self talk is amazing, so amazing actually and the things that you state in affirmations can so come true if you allow them. I am having so many of them come true day in and day out now, yet still need to increase my focus further.

Imagine if you know whatever you wish for you can get, and all you have to do is say the words and you will... it is like any genie story, you must be careful what you hope and ask for. After awhile you find yourself with your guard down saying things you do not really mean, or want to mean, yet it comes out of your mouth.

Be careful my friend, we can take so much more control of our lives, or shall I say we have so much more control than we realize. If this is true use it to your benefit and create a wonderful life...ask and you shall recieve...

Jim

Breath deep

This was the first day I really actually meditated in about 2 months. It felt so so good. To quiet the mind and start a wonderful carefree thought process. I look forward to continueing.

I am working hard on the carefulness of my word choices and what comes out my mouth. I feel the quality of my days were so much better on being able to not allow thought processes that were patterned to come to the surface. Great progress has been made, and I so look forward to the continued journey.

Looking over my sales, I am going to be way past where I was at the end of September this year than I was last year, and the market is down 30% in terms of sales, and the average sales price is down. This means I am way ahead, imagine the power when you connect with the universe and allow good things to happen and believe: )

Just call me Mr. Proof.

Jim

Great job...

But I am trying so hard to say watch out. When communicating with others, and you are making sure that your comminication is carefully stated with the universe, I find that is the area it is easiest to get tripped up. You hear what they are saying, in a direct conversation with you, and I have found at times it is easier to just agree, however that is not in perfection with what I am after.

That is an area that I am so glad I have been able to identify today by focusing my energy and efforts into believing all will be perfect, and making sure my self talk is in harmony. For the sake of ease ( wrong reason ) I allowed to not be in harmony.

Tomorrow my day will be even better now that I have identified this, and I feel by making sure for at least the rest of the week I do this, my next wekk will be even better.

How cool is this stuff huh, oh man so exciting to realise you have so much more control over your life with simply intelligent awareness of it. Makes it easy, and more joyful each day: )

Jim

Working it...

As soon as I got up this morning I was not only doing my gratitude's but I was self talking so well. I let myself know how this would be one of my greatest days ever, and that is just what has happened. Someone needing to sell emailed right away, then 2 other buyers have called since. Then prospected over 60 people ahhh feels good. And there is so much of the day left still, is a great day.

I can also say how I got 2 deals together, and am going to make sure my self talk continues strong each day this week. This habit is going to change my life: )

Jim

Amazing

The more you believe the better things seem to be. However it is simply focusing and believing, and not allowing your mind to go down roads for no reason at all. See the beauty head toward it, and you will eventually get there. As long as that is your focus and what you truly want. If it is you will not allow anything to stop you.

The area in which I have decided I am going to work extra hard this week is the self talk. In reading another book right now ( can't remember the name something about 4 things ) it also talks about the self talk. This is an area I know I will really grow this week by focusing even harder on it than ever before. I then know I will be creating habits that will be even better.

This is the self talk focus week: )

Jim

Human behavior

If I was to make a metaphor I would do on working out again. If you work out for a long period of time maybe 60 days say, and get yourself in great shape, you can really get into it and keep it going, or you can fall away. And if you fall away, in your mind you tell yourself ( or the ego speaks up for you) that hey your in great shape don't worry about it.. and you feel like you can carry on and do all you had when you were in the great shape. However if you were to be real honest, you have to admit and see ( hmm the secret may be going against this) that you cannot really maintain without the continued exercise pattern.

I say this because I had fallen away from my daily gratitude's, affirmations, meditation, and prayer. I need all these things I believe in order to connect in the most positive way with the universe. Understand please here that I mean it from connecting in a positive manner. I can and am always connected, however connecting in a higher more positive manner is what my goals are.

Each day I know I am not living life to the fullest measure, and I feel it is because I am not doing the program I have been speaking of, and you can also note the amount of times I have written over the last 2 weeks. I have done a great job for about 9 months of writing here of not acknowledging the negative out there. Today I am getting it all out for the purpose of admitting and refreshing I want the wonderful things so I need to attract those. I need to exercise acceptance as to what things may be and just understand and decide that no matter what comes into my life it is for the good and I am thankful. The direction life sends me is for good reasons, I accept that.

So with a warm positive feeling good focus, I open myself to the beauty life for some reason has in store for me, and I look forward to being able to share it with some one.... I used to think I knew who that person was but am no longer totally sure... no matter what my life will be wonderful and awesome, that I do know.

Today is the start of a beautiful new life for me, I am so grateful for that!

Carry On

The universe is providing for me what is best, even if I do not really feel it is the method or way I would have chosen. There are wonderful things happening in my life in every area. In terms of the business, I am approaching each call, email and contact with a totally different mindset right now. I was not attacking or believing the way I should for a small amount there. I was in terms of the listings that were coming in, those calls I totally believed.

It is terms of the actual sales that I was not so in line with, and now for the next 30 days I will be making that proper connection, and so look forward to such.

One real cool note is 2 business opportunities that have come my way. I am struggling with the opportunity that CBRB has put forth wanting me to take a shot at management, however the commitment has me doing Real Estate for the next 12 months still. Not sure that is a strong desire of mine, ( as in no desire: ) however perhaps I need to let go let god... or let the universe float me along....

Jim

Be careful silly

Is what I have to remind myself of so often, and to also be able to try to do my best to see and avoid the old same thought patterns that are a part of my make up. It appears if I allow myself, and as just like doing psychical activity and staying in shape, you know the more you work out the better shape you are in... well it is the same with the mental exercising. It can at times be easy to allow yourself once you have decided ( whether conscious or subconsciously ) that you are comfortable and do not have to follow through with your mental work on improving...

I wanted to get a bunch of listings in June and did, all is well it was by far my best month is terms. Now I have decided I need to get a bunch of sales again, and am off in running in that mindset.. I had gotten comfortable, and was not trying to attract the sales like i was before. I am now doing what I can to attract them again... and even during my writing I have gotten a call to list another... and am off now for another appt.

I am going to attract the sales, I am certainly putting that out in the universe and connecting.... even though before I felt I was... I really was not: )

To admit it feels good, and my eyes are wide open and ready to accept sales.

Jim

What do you see?

Or better yet what do you choose to see or decide you want to see? It is very clear that whatever you want to see you will find. You will simply inturpit the data to make it be those results. It simply is what the human mind and animal does. Take the data, and twist it to the conclusion you were/are after.

So if this is what we do, why not take the data and skew it to the most wonderful results possible instead of the default of poor results, or not working out. If you make that choice, my question is what do you have to lose? The tough part is the human mind will now come up with reasons to protect the way your patterned behavior has been. You will protect yourself, do you also see you need to therefore protect yourself from yourself.

Be aware that your mind is doing this in the earliest of possible stages, and you will find you feel better throughout your mind and body. Do not create the negative conflict, however if you do identify it as soon as possible, and do a shifter.

I have learned that out in the universe is every thing you ever want or desire, and I truly do believe now that you will attract whatever it is you are after...or perhaps not after depending on your thought process. However if you believe that good can come from every thing, that means it can. If you believe only bad will come no matter what, guess what your right again: )

I am about to wander into another beautiful day, and right now I am trying to decide how and what I want the day to be. I am in that struggle right now, which way do I want to choose, sometimes your mind is very strong and so wants to think of the rotten crap and liveand dwell in it. Why, why would one want to consume oneself in that when there is so much beauty to be seen had and a part of?

I will now do a second set of gratitude's , and work my affirmations, it is so nice out and even if it wasn't I am going to make this a most wonderful day, no one or thing can stop that if I make that decision....

Jim

It will work any way you want it to.

The Secret that is, it will work for your benefit, or it can work against you. The thing is you are the one to decide this. Or better yet, you can sit back anbd determine for yourself which way it will go.

You are the only one who can take your mind and reel it in, or let it out. Are you going to let it run with good thoughts, or are you going to determine bad thoughts, or thoughts that you prefer not to happen be the ones that run?

You consciously take your good thoughts and end them ( or is that subconsciously ) so why not do the same when the yukky ones are ruling.

Sometimes it is that you do not want to do your gratitude's when you first get up, you lay there and think of the ending crappy thought from the night before. Is that truly how you want your day to go? What sick part of you really wants it to go that way? That is what you must figure out. I believe Eckert Tolle is the one who has that answer. Either way, it is you against you, which one do you want to bet on and see win?

Jim