Florida vacation cut and paste

April 30, 2008

Quietly let it happen

Have you ever had a days or moment that you feel all is so perfect… that no matter what you do it will work out perfect… ahh that was my today…. And my yesterday

So most of my writings have been about my work… but what if all else around you also knows that you should be writing and helping people… and that I can achieve anything I decide I want to achieve… even my wife looks at things now and no longer worries she knows that we can have anything we want.. And that she may enjoy whatever in life she wants….

We have looked at these properties down in Florida here and even though we have a wonderful one we are looking at ones that we used to think were above us, and now look at them as no big deal and know we can get what ever we desire…..

Imagine that knowing and feeling that all is at your desire and disposal… my goodness life is far more wonderful than I have realized… I also have tried to slow down and listing to the songs that just so happen to come on the radio,….. or who ends up coming into my life… I feel it is always for a reason now….

I know I am carrying on, but inside… I am only trying to decide what it is I want, and even the ones we looked at today, I let Lisa know that the ones we saw were nothing but a stepping stone to what we would end up eventually getting..

This is actually one of the days where I know so much I want to write about…. And I have held myself back to wring smaller amounts knowing it is more important to do smaller amounts and have the changes show all by themselves… I am about to start another book at the same time now…. And it will be written quickly…

Jim

May 1st 2008

Warmth, speak only of warmth…. And let those around you help guide you…..you know when you should allow it and when not to. Step aside… hmm what can one mean by that? Take you ego, move it to the side and allow yourself to be human all of a sudden… it sounds easy but can be a challenge… and if the one you are allowing that to happen with is aware, it is actually quite a wonderful feeling… stepping back that is a laughing at oneself…

I have been on vacation here, and allowed my mind to not focus or worry about something in the future that may or may not happen. Can you imagine that, just enjoying the day to the fullest, and knowing deep down in your heart that no matter what everything in the future does not really overly matter right now at this point in time, and that I should just be enjoying the day… and oh my have I ever.

So my example of the day to help myself and others? A phone call comes in as we are laughing so much and so hard that 3 of us are physically on the floor rolling around pretty much uncontrollably and the moods starts a shift…. Next thing you know the mind has forgotten about all the joy it was just experiencing, and is letting the call go deeper and deeper into the mind… at first no big deal, I can handle it, just as I fear and hope as I write this ( I actually have tried so hard to not write or focus on the negative, I do not believe I can allow the secret to truly work as effectively as it can if I do ) however for the purpose of human behavior, and that I also have had these feelings as you have, and that together we can see to it that we turn them into the positive, or better yet not allow them into our every day life… or do less and less anyway.

So to share lightly the silliness of my last night… imagine being with a bunch of people that all love you, and that you so enjoy their company…. And you allow a silly phone call to put a dent into it by seeking or perhaps seeing anothers agenda and then dwelling ( without trying to) upon it and having it become a part of your utopia… this is where secret growth needs to continue to grow and get better… although it has so much since the beginning, it needs to and will continue to get better.

I am in Florida in paradise with my wife and our daughters ( Marissa and Jamie ) the weather is wonderful, Lisas mom, brother and sister are just 2 doors down… and I forget that for a few minutes….

Oh my if you read a few days back I was to write out a small formula to allow the secret to work deeper…. And I have not yet, however I did speak to my wife on it and explained what it was I wanted to do so she could be on the same page and supportive of it.

So the formula… ok here goes some how it will just work out perfect as I type….

1) Lay in bed and visualize how I want to have the day go…. ( just a positive overview, not a controlled must be this way one…..
2) Take a few deep breaths as I head down to make my coffee…. And do all I can to feel and inhale the life around me
3) As I drink my coffee or wait for it I am to write down 5 things I am grateful for, say them out loud, and then make sure I take them with me during my day so I may take them out to read them and perhaps share them during my day.
4) After my gratitude words or statements, I am to say my aspirations right after I have read them… it is important to not only read, write but to make sure I am saying them out loud… and if possible say them in front of a mirror for greater effect.
5) Meditation and reading…. I need to fine tune this one a little, I am wondering if I should make sure I at least have a page to read if I feel I do not have a book of choice, or to make sure I always have a copy of the secret to read slowly and deeply a page….
6) The meditation…. I need to make sure that I at least take 5 minutes to reflect and allow my mind to clear itself, and open itself to the day to allow the beauty to be the focus and be the most prevalent thing in my life for that day ( I need only to focus a day at a time )
7) Make sure that the first 5 people you see each day you say something nice: )

This is the formula I will follow. It is May day a new beginning… just like so many other days, but this is almost a halfway point, and we are about to have life change very rapidly in a manner that is so wonderful, by allowing it to be such… we will make the negative part of the brain a little sad over the next large segment of my life… hmm and maybe even for the rest of it.. could you imagine that not allowing yourself to feel the yukkies as much as you want to… not really any sadness there huh: )

Jimbo…